Reach Beyond Blog

Keeping it REALLY simply!

Sun, 6 Jun 2010 07:27:37 BST

I was looking around, recently, for some new ideas and inspriration for a new Personal Development workshop I am designing, and came across this great story about making assumptions, being judgemental, and above all, making things more difficult than they need to be . . !

A party of suppliers was being given a tour of a mental hospital.� One of the visitors had made some very insulting remarks about the patients.� Aft erh the tour, the visitors were introduced to various members of staff in the canteen.

The rude visitor chatted to one of the security staff, Bill, a kindly and wise ex-policeman.�

"Are they all raving loonies in here then" said the rude man.

"Only the ones who fail the test," said Bill.

"What's the test?" said the man.

"Well, we show them a bath full of water, a bucket, a jug and an egg cup, and we ask them what's the quickest way to empty the bath,! said Bill.

"Oh, I see.� Simple - the normal ones know it's the bucket, right?"

"No actually," said Bill.� "The normal ones say pull out the plug.� Should I check when there's a bed free for you?"

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Food for thought eh? How often in our personal or professional lives do we not� stop to think about the easiest or most effective way to achieve a result, and yet by stopping briefly to give some thought to the options available, and making a decision that might just save some time and effort.

I found this story, and many many more on a fantastic website called www.businessball.com where there is a whole host of interesting information about learning, development, and life in general.

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"Success" - a thought to weather the storms of today

Tue, 18 May 2010 14:04:30 BST

Success

Ralph Waldo Emerson

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To laugh often and much;

to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;

to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;

to appreciate beauty;� to find the best in others;

to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or redeemed social condition;

to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.

This is to have succceeded.

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Optimists and pessimists........ thank heavens for both!!!

Tue, 18 May 2010 14:03:59 BST

One life - six words

Wed, 17 Feb 2010 13:13:21 GMT

I came across a really interesting book called "One Life 6 Words.� What's yours?" edited by SMITH magazine.

The essence of the book is about creating a six-word story or memoir about your life and is full of quotations from a wide range of people.� Apparently the idea originates from a challenge given to Ernest Hemingway to write a story in six words.

The Editors talk about the book as being a "glorious mishmash ....... a thousand little windows into humanity"

Some of my favourites from the book are:

Danced in Fields of Infinite possibilites

Now I blog and drink wine

Followed rules, not dreams. Never again.

I believe in life before death.

Happiness is a warm salami sandwich

So it gave me the idea that we should add our own six word stories on here related to reaching beyond.� So please feel free to add yours and check back to the 6 Word listing Cateogry to read other peoples' stories.

The idea is also engaging people on the linkedin.com site. and people are leaving some fascinating phrases.

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Who is leading who? Time for a rethink!

Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:24:12 GMT

This birthday card was sent to me which I thought I would share - certainly brought a smile to my face.

Walls or Windmills . . . ? Is YOUR team ready for the business Upturn?

Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:19:24 GMT

I recently came across a great chinese proverb which said:

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"When the winds of change blow, some people build walls for defences, and some people build windmills"

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I thought it was very appropriate at a time when so many businesses - and individuals for that matter - are dealing with so much turbulence and difficulty, especially if they have had to reduce manpower because of costs.It can be so easy to batten down the hatches and build walls to cope with poor trading and lost opportunities and even build psychological walls in your dealings with staff, customers and suppliers in order to survive.

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However, the quote reminded me of the principle in martial arts where you use the energy of your opponent or situation to defeat them, rather than waste your own force and energy to combat them.� Businesses that I deal with seem to be more successful weathering the economic storm when they work with the situation they are in, and look at new ways of doing business and using the "new energy" that is around - an energy of creativity, focussing on the resources you have and not bothering about what you don't have.� While these times can prove challenging in so many different ways, if we look at what we can do, it is often surprising to find that we can actually do more with less, and feel a real sense of achievement.

I am also reminded of a great african proverb which I came across years ago which says:�

"Calm seas do not make skillful sailors"

So how will you get the most from your teams at work?� Some of the people will have been with you through the difficult times and need re-motivating perhaps; you may have hired some new people in readiness for the new business opportunities.� Whoever is in your team now, it may prove beneficial for everyone to spend some time together to learn about each other - experience, ideas, talents - and talk about how to work best together.

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choices choices....... it's up to you!!!

Mon, 19 Oct 2009 08:11:30 BST

looking at life

Thu, 12 Mar 2009 16:41:25 GMT

Accepting your Self - sent to me by my sister

Thu, 12 Mar 2009 16:14:53 GMT

I �would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to �myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avante garde on my patio. I am �entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.�

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon, before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
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Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until�4 AM�and sleep until�noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60's &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ... I will.
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I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set. They, too, will get old.

I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.

Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is �pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.

�I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.��

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.
So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I �like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day (if I feel like it).��
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MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART, ESPECIALLY WHEN �IT'S STRAIGHT FROM THE HEART!

MAY YOU ALWAYS HAVE A RAINBOW OF SMILES ON YOUR FACE AND IN YOUR HEART FOREVER AND EVER! FRIENDS FOREVER!

STAR WARS revisited !!!

Thu, 12 Mar 2009 16:09:30 GMT